Those who live in rural areas may cling to their apps like an astronaut to his oxygen tank. It may be the only place to meet kindreds within hundreds of miles. The desire for connection makes all potential matches a sacred thing. People have value.
Conversely, users in high-density cities may approach an app user with all the importance of an Angry Bird. To city dwellers, people may be seen as that annoying obstacle between them and their bus seat or soy latte at the corner roaster. In a city, amidst an overflowing stream of potential matches, you may be viewed as a disposable commodity instead of the beautiful expression of life that you are.
RECOMMENDATION: Consider your locale and accept the ambivalence and fickleness of overstimulated city people without taking their indifference personally. No, it’s not about you.